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Best Dating Sites in London

Expert rankings of the top dating platforms in London, scored on safety, ease of use, value, and match quality.

London is Europe's largest dating market, with a hugely diverse and international population of singles. The city's pub culture and neighborhood-centric social life blend naturally with dating apps, making it easy to transition from online conversation to in-person meetups. Londoners are increasingly open to niche and interest-based dating platforms.

Top Dating Sites (13)

1
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Hinge

General Dating

Meaningful connections leading to real relationships

8.7
FreeUSD 34.99/mo premium
#3 Most Downloaded Dating App#1 App for Marriages (35% of couples)#1 Dating App in UK, Australia, Canada & Nordics
2
🐝

Bumble

General Dating

Women who want to control the conversation

8.5
FreeUSD 32.99/mo premium
#2 Most Downloaded Dating AppApple 'Trend of the Year' WinnerBest Marketing Campaign
3
🔥

Tinder

General Dating

Casual dating and meeting new people quickly

8.2
FreeUSD 29.99/mo premium
#1 Most Downloaded Dating App Worldwide#1 Top Grossing Dating AppBest Mobile Dating App
4
🏳️‍🌈

HER

LGBTQ+

Lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and non-binary people

8.0
FreeUSD 14.99/mo premium
#1 Dating App for Lesbian & Queer Women4.4★ App Store Rating
5
❤️

Match.com

General Dating

Serious daters over 30 looking for committed relationships

7.9
USD 44.99/mo premium
Most Innovative Company21.5M Registered UsersWorld's First Commercial Dating Website 1995
6
💙

OkCupid

General Dating

People who value compatibility matching over appearance

7.8
FreeUSD 19.99/mo premium
#1 Rated Dating Site4.3★ App Store RatingTop 10 Dating Sites
7
💜

Badoo

General Dating

International dating and meeting people abroad

7.5
FreeUSD 12.99/mo premium
#1 in Latin America & Southern EuropeBest Dating Site4.6★ App Store Rating
8
📍

Happn

Hook-up / Casual

Meeting people you cross paths with in real life

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#2 Dating App in France4.3★ App Store Rating100M+ Users in 190 Countries
9
🔵

Inner Circle

UnverifiedNiche

Young professionals in major European and global cities

7.4
FreeEUR 39.99/mo premium
Deloitte Technology Fast 50 Winner
10
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Grindr

LGBTQ+

Gay, bi, and queer men seeking nearby connections

7.4
FreeUSD 24.99/mo premium
#1 Gay Dating App Worldwide#4 Highest-Grossing Dating AppBest Dating App
11
🏆

The League

Serious Relationships

Ambitious professionals who want a vetted, curated dating pool

7.2
USD 67/mo premium
<8% Acceptance Rate
12
🦋

Feeld

Hook-up / Casual

Open-minded singles and couples exploring non-traditional connections

7.2
FreeUSD 23.99/mo premium
#1 App for Ethical Non-MonogamyInnovation by Design Award — Graphic DesignBest Real-Time Response Campaign
13
📅

Thursday

Hook-up / Casual

Daters who are tired of endless swiping and want urgency

7.1
FreeGBP 9.99/mo premium

Dating Site Costs in London

Dating site subscriptions in London typically range from £0 – £50/month depending on the platform and subscription tier.

SiteCategoryMonthly Cost
HingeGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 34.99/mo
BumbleGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 32.99/mo
TinderGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 29.99/mo
HERLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 14.99/mo
Match.comGeneral DatingUSD 44.99/mo
OkCupidGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 19.99/mo
BadooGeneral DatingFree tierUSD 12.99/mo
HappnHook-up / CasualFree tierUSD 24.99/mo
Inner CircleNicheFree tierEUR 39.99/mo
GrindrLGBTQ+Free tierUSD 24.99/mo

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the best dating apps in London?
Bumble and Hinge are the most popular for serious dating, while Tinder remains dominant for volume. Thursday has gained a strong following with its once-a-week dating events, and Happn works particularly well in London's dense neighborhoods.
Is Happn popular in London?
Yes, very. London's high population density and public transport culture make Happn's location-based 'crossed paths' feature especially effective.
What makes London dating unique?
London's dating scene is incredibly international — you'll encounter people from all over the world. Pub dates are the classic first date, and the city's many neighborhoods each have distinct dating subcultures.
Are there London-specific dating apps?
Thursday was founded in London and has a strong local following with its weekly in-person events. The Inner Circle also has a significant London membership focused on professionals.
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