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OkCupid

VerifiedGeneral Dating

People who value compatibility matching over appearance

Last Updated: July 2026

Overall Score7.8out of 10

Performance Scores

Editorial scores based on our assessment methodology

Safety & Privacy7.0
Ease of Use7.0
Value for Money8.0
Match Quality8.0
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Our Expert Review

OkCupid is known for its comprehensive matching algorithm based on a series of questions that gauge compatibility across various dimensions. This makes it ideal for users seeking deeper connections and those open to diverse relationship types, including polyamory. The app appeals to a broad age range, from 20s to 40s, and is popular among those interested in both casual and serious relationships. OkCupid's interface is straightforward, though not as visually appealing as some competitors. Its strengths lie in its inclusivity and emphasis on personality over appearance. However, the abundance of questions can be time-consuming, and the app's messaging system can feel cluttered. Compared to Match.com, OkCupid offers a more modern and less traditional approach to dating. Notable features include the DoubleTake matching system and a robust set of filters for finding matches. Despite occasional controversies over privacy, OkCupid remains a favorite for those seeking meaningful connections.

App Store Rating

▶️Google Play
3.4/ 5.0

293,434 reviews

Source: Google Play Store. Last checked July 2026.

Pricing Plans

Free

USD 0

Basic features included

  • Create profile
  • Browse matches
  • Limited messaging
Premium

USD 19.99/mo

All features unlocked

  • Unlimited messaging
  • Advanced filters
  • See who likes you
  • Priority visibility
Get Premium

User Demographics

Age Range18 - 65
18Primary: 25-4065+
Gender RatioNot publicly disclosed

Pros & Cons

Pros

  • Deep compatibility matching system
  • Most inclusive gender/orientation options
  • Strong free features
  • Detailed profiles

Cons

  • Interface can feel dated
  • Fewer users than top competitors
  • Algorithm changes have frustrated longtime users
  • Ad-heavy free experience

Awards & Rankings

4.3★ App Store Rating

Apple

Top 10 Dating Sites

Time Magazine 2007

First App with 22 Gender Options

OkCupid/GLAAD 2014

#1 Rated Dating Site

Consumer Reports 2016

GLAAD & HRC Partner for LGBTQ+ Inclusion

OkCupid / GLAAD

Key Features

Extensive questionnaire matchingCompatibility scoresInclusive gender/orientation optionsProfile essaysDiscovery filtersIntro messagesStacksDealbreakers

Available In

USAUKCanadaAustraliaIndia

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